... unique models of the world in this world.

... WOW.

... GREAT!

... AND?

And it means we all have our unique way to process and give meaning to the world outside, therefore creating our unique internal map to find directions and live our lives.
It also means we potentially have 6,671,202,854 other models of the world to discover and learn from!

... Talk about a challenge!

And maybe the challenge doesn't lie in the number, maybe it lies in accepting and respecting models that are different from our own. Maybe it lies in getting that greater tolerance and understanding of stepping in someone else's shoes and experience what they experience, the way they experience it. And whether we agree or not, whether we like that model or not is irrelevant, what matters is that we are flexible enough to operate from different perspectives.

Writing to you as someone who lives in Dubai, we all know there is a fantastic mix of cultures and nationalities, from all ages, all social backgrounds ... what a great testing ground for experimentation!

The first time I attended a meeting in the Gulf region half of the attendees turned up late (some half way through the presentation), everyone (but me ;-) had their mobile switched on and were taking calls in the room. I did find it a bizarre experience as in the UK you would be expected to turn up on time, apologise and have a good reason if you didn't and put your phone on silent when attending meetings (or else you'd get "the look" or a sarcastic comment). What triggered my curiosity that day is that everyone seemed to find this completely normal. Hello! Was I the only one to notice how rude people were here!
Well ... yes. I was the only one to think that. It didn't mean the attendees were rude nor disrespectful as in their model of the world it is ok to listen to a presentation and answer a phone call. It is also ok to turn up late and have no justification to give. And discussing with them after the meeting I discovered they did gather the information they came for in the first place.

Yes, we're all different, none the same and to get along with each other, live as a community in harmony one essential learning is to respect each other's model of the world. Everybody always says "Of Course!" when hearing this and still ... not only this means to accept and respect the other person's reality and also to switch off your own reality and get an experience of theirs. And very few people really allow themselves to let go of their vision of the world, instead they make excuses, justify themselves, give advice as to what is right or wrong ...

So just for a few days, let's allow ourselves to look into different realities with ease and curiosity, switching off our judgments and beliefs ... how many great discoveries can we make?


Love, Light & Smiles,
Celine Grey-Pelissier